🛡️ DDLG Safety & Consent

🌈 Consent Is Everything

DDLG is built on trust and communication. All interactions should be fully consensual and discussed ahead of time. This includes rules, punishments, regression play, and even language used (like titles or baby talk).

Use tools like negotiation checklists, safe words, and ongoing check-ins to protect each other's comfort and autonomy.

🧸 Littles Deserve Safety

Littles may be vulnerable in headspace — emotionally or mentally regressed. It's a CG's job to create a secure, respectful environment where the little feels heard and safe. That includes respecting their boundaries even in play.

👑 Caregivers Need Support Too

CGs also need consent and care. It's okay for a caregiver to set limits, need space, or ask for appreciation. Power exchange should never mean one-sided exhaustion or emotional burden.

🚫 Red Flags To Watch For

• Disrespecting limits or ignoring your safeword
• Using DDLG to manipulate, isolate, or control
• "Testing" boundaries without prior discussion
• Mocking or shaming someone's regression
• Not allowing open conversation about concerns

If you see these — it's okay to walk away. Real CG/l dynamics are built on mutual joy, not fear.

🌟 Aftercare Is Important

Any intense play — even emotional roleplay or discipline — should be followed by aftercare. This could be cuddles, reassurance, snacks, or just checking in. Aftercare helps regulate emotions and keeps the bond strong.

💬 Talk Early, Talk Often

Don't wait for issues to build up. Even silly play should include real conversation about needs, feelings, and any changes. Your dynamic will thrive with honesty and compassion.