📏 Strict Daddy/Mommy
Firm hands, soft heart — the caregiver with structure and standards.
The Strict Daddy/Mommy role is all about loving leadership. You're not here to be pushed around — and your little knows it. You set clear expectations, offer consistency, and enforce rules with discipline that feels safe, not scary.
Beneath your authority is deep love. You discipline because you care. You structure their world so they can safely fall apart inside it — knowing you'll still be there, keeping everything in place.
🧠 Common Traits
- Firm and consistent with rules and consequences
- Highly protective and emotionally controlled
- Believes in structure, boundaries, and earned rewards
- Enjoys discipline dynamics (timeouts, rules, spankings)
- Commands respect with calm authority
- Can be intense — but always with love underneath
🪪 Favorite Caregiving Moments
- Creating rules and charts for good behavior
- Issuing warnings... and delivering consistent consequences
- Helping a brat crumble into obedience — lovingly
- Watching your little blossom within the structure you built
- Delivering praise only when it's truly earned
🪷 How You Support Your Little
You offer safety through discipline, and peace through consistency. Littles who crave rules, firm hands, and someone to lovingly “take charge” feel most at home with you.
You keep the chaos out so their inner child can come alive without fear. When they push, you push back — gently but unyieldingly. It's not about control... it's about care with consequences.
⚖️ Things to Watch Out For
Balance is key. Too much control can stifle expression — make sure your little has space to be silly and spontaneous, too. And don't forget that softness is a strength. Even the firmest CGs need cuddles sometimes.
🔗 You Might Also Relate To...
- Brat Tamer - if you live for obedience training
- Teacher - for your structured, mentoring side
- Switch - if you like firm guidance but sometimes need a break from control
- Caregiver - to explore your nurturing core